Enes Paker - Work & Notes
Founder at Crea, Inc. Based in the San Francisco Bay Area.
Notes on what I'm thinking about, learning, and exploring.
I don’t see these as final answers. They are ideas in motion, shaped by books, conversations, work, and life. Writing helps me structure my thinking. Sharing creates room for better questions, different perspectives, and conversations I might not have found otherwise.
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A lot of adults are much younger emotionally than they are physically.
Sometimes it feels like there is an eight-year-old inside an adult body, trying to handle conflict, disappointment, shame, or fear without the tools to process it.
Most people were never really taught how to move through their emotions. They learned how to suppress, defend, blame, avoid, perform, or shut down.
And the uncomfortable part is that this may be true for us too. We may also be carrying emotions we do not fully know how to sort through.
The mistake is expecting emotional maturity just because someone is an adult. Age does not automatically create the ability to communicate clearly, regulate discomfort, or respond without defensiveness.
The way to navigate it is to stop arguing with the emotional age in front of you. See the capacity clearly, respond calmly, and choose the right level of access, trust, and boundary.
Emotional maturity is not excusing the behavior. It is understanding what is happening without letting it pull you out of yourself.
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In 1996, $100 bought about 42 Big Macs.
Had you invested that $100 in the S&P 500 instead and reinvested dividends, today it would buy about 341 Big Macs.
That's more than 8x as many burgers.
The point is not "don't buy burgers."
The point is to know what you're trading for them.
Sometimes spending is worth it. Sometimes it's just giving up future freedom without noticing.
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Read like an investor, not a student.
Finishing every book is not the point, especially not out of guilt. The real value is finding the few ideas that upgrade how you think, decide, or act.
Some pages deserve slowing down because there is real signal. Others can be skimmed because they are repetition, ego, or overreach.
Even when a book sounds scientific or certain, it is still only one useful lens, not the whole truth.
A book is worth it if it leaves you with one durable upgrade.
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Mental liquidity is the ability to update or abandon an idea without feeling like you betrayed yourself.
Forming and sharing ideas should not mean being trapped by them. Writing something down is not a lifelong contract. It is part of shaping your thinking.
Strong opinions are useful, but identity attachment can make us defend things even when reality is telling us to change.
I’m learning to hold ideas with conviction, but not attachment, and stay loyal to truth over my last opinion.
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